Private Money Power Persuasion Phrases that Convert Prospects to Lenders
Posted by Patrick_Riddle
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Wouldn’t it be incredible if you could make a few simple changes in how you communicate your private money lending program and double even triple your conversion rate?
Heck yeah it would!
Well, I’m about to tell you – what took me years to learn through trial and error and countless hours of study in sales, marketing, psychology, persuasion, communication – 3 word-for-word “private money getting” power persuasion phrases … phrases that immediately disarm your prospect, gather needed information, and put you in the most powerful negotiating position possible: the reluctant role.
While these power persuasion phrases may sound simple, do not mistake associating simplicity with small value.
Remember as Albert Einstein said,
“Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.”
Or as Leonardo Da Vinci put it,
“Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.”
Put these simple private money lending power persuasion phrases to work for you … and start getting the private money, the cash you need for your deals.
Private Money Lending Power Persuasion Phrases
Watch the video below …
That was a small clip from my private money getting presentation I did recently at Josh Brown and Lou Castillo’s event. I’ll be releasing more private money videos soon … so stay tuned!
Put your questions, comments, and feedback in the comment area … and let me know how I can help.
Happy Private Money Getting!
~ Patrick
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Awesome Words To Live By… Seriously Worth A Watch
Posted by Trevor
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“I’ve never considered myself as particularly talented. Where I excel is my ridiculous work ethic. While the other guys sleepin’… I’m working”
That quote right there is one of my favorites in his video… and that’s one thing I’ve found out over the last 4 or so years.
Find what you love to do… and work harder than everyone else… put out everything you’ve got… realize we’ve only got one go around on Earth… don’t waste your limited time here… make a difference… leave the world in a better place than you found it… and and do all you can to help make a difference for other people and for yourself.
Enjoy the week!
- T & P
P.S. – A couple more quotes from the video… “Don’t create a plan B… it’ll only distract you from plan A“. “Being realistic is the most commonly travelled road to mediocrity“.
Are You Taking S.M.A.R.T. Action as a Private Money Getter?
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As many of you know, I’m big on teaching students to … Take Massive Action!
I’ve seen all too many beginners get stopped in their tracks due to information overload, due to fear of the unknown, fear of failure, fear of what others may say.
The result of these common obstacles is often inaction. And that’s a BIG problem. Idleness is a sure fire way to frustration, anger, and ultimately failure.
I came up with a metaphor to help you destroy the tendency towards inaction with S.MA.R.T. Action.
Check out the video below to learn more …
Now, be honest with yourself …
Have you been taking S.M.A.R.T. Action?
If not, no big deal because you can commit today, you can commit right now to change that; to no longer be one who procrastinates, to be a doer, to take S.M.A.R.T. Action.
If you have any questions, suggestions, or tips, toss ‘em in the comment area.
Catch you later,
- Patrick & Trevor
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Are You Making These Common Private Money Getting Mistakes?
Posted by Patrick_Riddle
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Hopefully, you either haven’t yet made or never will make these private money getting mistakes.
One of the best ways to learn something new, is to learn what NOT to do. In this instance, mistakes to avoid.
Learn from these common private money getting mistakes so that you get private money for your deals safer, easier, and faster.
3 Private Money Getting Mistakes You Must Avoid
1) Advertising Directly for Investors Without Registering with the SEC
Here’s an example of how NOT to advertise to get private money:
Investors Wanted!
10% Returns Backed By Real Estate
Guaranteed!
Contact us at xxx-xxxx
If you were to run an ad like this in your local newspaper, that would be considered a general solicitation. And without registering with the SEC, that could land you in some big time trouble.
Here are a couple tips …
Never, and I mean never, say that an investment is guaranteed. That could get you in major hot water with the SEC … not where you want to be. Like Benjamin Franklin said, “Nothing is certain but death and taxes.”
I recommend that your primary strategy for finding private money leads is to network at REIA meetings, chamber of commerce, rotary, small business associations, BNI, and other similar organizations.
But, for those of you who still want to advertise, here’s how to structure your ad so that you stay SEC compliant.
Position your ad as if you’re teaching how to become a private lender rather than directly offering an investment. For instance …
Learn How to Make Great Returns
Backed by Real Estate
Contact us at xxx-xxxx
That would not be considered a general solicitation.
2) Presenting a Specific Deal During the First Appointment
The private money getting process we teach our Private Money Blueprint students entails getting a prospect into a formal appointment and presenting your private lender PowerPoint presentation.
During the presentation, rather than presenting a specific deal, go over general terms for your private lending program.
You see, it’s much easier for someone to object to a characteristic of a specific deal than to an ongoing investment program.
If you present a deal at this point, your prospect may not have the required funds, may not like the property, may not be able to meet the time frame needed to fund the deal.
However, once you sell someone on your investment program and you find out exactly what range of funds they have, time frame available, expectations from a good investment opportunity, etc., you can transition to passing specific deals by him or her; deals that match the information you already elicited.
3) Telling Instead of Selling
To get private money, it’s not about you telling a prospect about you, about your company, about your real estate investing strategy, about your private lending program.
True, that’s part of it. But only part.
You’re selling an idea; an idea of how to make a good return on investment dollars. And the best way to sell that idea, believe it or not, is by asking good questions; the type of questions that elicit information about your prospect’s pains and goals.
Here are some good examples of questions to ask when borrowing private money.
Making mistakes in the private money game can cost you dearly. By steering clear of these 3 common mistakes, you’ll be on your way to getting private money safer, easier, and faster …
Happy Private Money Getting!
If you guys and gals have any questions, put ‘em in the comment area.
- Patrick & Trevor
How to Use Facebook and Twitter to Get More Private Money
Posted by Patrick_Riddle
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Ok, I know what you’re thinking …
“Yeah right Patrick. Anyone who thinks they can use Facebook and Twitter to get private money is full of crap.”
… and I don’t blame ya.
I thought social media marketing – using Facebook and Twitter to generate leads for business – was just a bunch of hype too. I thought it was a complete waste of time.
But, that didn’t stop me from testing these new marketing platforms out for myself. And I’m sure glad I did.
Check out the video below to learn how to use Facebook and Twitter to get more private money for your real estate deals …
Good stuff, ehhh?
If you’d like to connect with Trevor and I, here are our links …
And if you’d like to do a little social networking while you’re over here, put your Facebook and Twitter links in the comment area below.
Let us know how we can help you guys and gals out …
Happy Investing!
- Patrick & Trevor
Private Money Blueprint Results – Kimberly Francis Raises Over $100K
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Whoever says that getting private money isn’t easy … either doesn’t know what he or she is talking about or doesn’t know the simple techniques and strategies that work for easily getting private money …
I checked in with one of our students, Kimberly Francis, on Facebook to see how the Private Money Blueprint System was treating her and if she had any questions we could help her with … check out her response …

It’s really gratifying … I mean think about it, “If you were stuck, without a way to finance your deals, unable to capitalize on one of the greatest times to buy in our lifetimes, unable to achieve your real estate investing dreams … and everything changed for you … you invested in yourself, you invested in your education, and now you’re seeing results like these … over $100,000 in private money just a couple months after getting started … wouldn’t that feel incredible?”
It does for Kimberly, and Butch, and Tim, and Connie, and Victor, and Ann, and Ray, and Justin, and the list goes on and on …
If you want access to hundreds of thousands of dollars in private money to fund your deals, if you want to learn how to easily get private money for your deals, check out our private money getting system.
Oh yeah, we love connecting with our students … whether you’re already on the Private Money Blueprint Team or just loving all the killer free training that we offer … head over to Facebook and friend us up …
Here are our links:
If you are one of the many Private Money Blueprint students who are rocking it and getting tons of private money, send us your success story … we LOVE hearing from you all
- Patrick & Trevor
Rob Gets Hounded By Private Lenders – With Just One PMBP Strategy…
Posted by Trevor
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Okay, Rob has been a star investor student of ours and is kicking some serious hiney. This is one of the first emails Rob sent us (within a week of joining PMBP)… and he let us know what a recent networking meeting was like for him when he just changed ONE thing he was doing and followed just ONE strategy from the PMBP program.
Here ’tis… pretty cool stuff huh?
(click the image below to see the full version email from Rob)
>>> Use The “Negative” Approach Rob Talks
About That He Found In PMBP… It Works Wonders…<<<
Private Money Case Study – Brian Gets Committment For $150,000
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Another cool note from a happy PMPB student.
Brian has been a student at PMBP since summer of ‘09… and he let Patrick know through his blog that he just locked up $150,000 (which will turn into $500,000 after the first deal) in private money to do his real estate deals.
Check it out…

>>> Click Here To Get The Same Tools And
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Wealthiest Zip Codes In America – Great Place To Find Private Lenders
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Okay, when people ask us “where do I find private lenders?“… the answer isn’t a clear cut answer like people like to hear. I think most people expect us to say, “Well, here’s a phone number… call them”… or, “Go to this website“.
The thing is, true private lenders don’t advertise themselves as lenders… and there’s no big website or database that these people really aggregate at (except for places like www.prosper.com, but the limit is $25,000).
Anyhow, one of the best places to find private lenders… is to follow where the money is.
And, lucky for us… people have already done the work for us on this one… and here’s a list of the Wealthiest Zip Codes In America that will help you target some areas in your networking and marketing efforts for private money lenders. If you’re not in one of these zip codes, don’t worry about it! There’s plenty of money in your zip code too… it just might not be as plentiful as in the zip codes below (I currently live in the county with the highest unemployment in Oregon… you think it’s a wealthy zip code? Nope. ).
There’s Private Money Looking At You…
Source: All Data From The IRS
Top 100 Wealthiest Zip Codes
| State | City | Zip Code | # of Tax Returns | Gross Income | Return |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10004 | 1,336 | 2,830,671 | $2,118,766 |
| WASHINGTON | Medina | 98039 | 1,514 | 827,810 | $546,770 |
| CALIFORNIA | Los Angeles | 90067 | 3,141 | 1,717,098 | $546,672 |
| CALIFORNIA | Atherton | 94027 | 3,738 | 2,009,863 | $537,684 |
| NEVADA | Incline Village | 89451 | 1,362 | 721,047 | $529,403 |
| CALIFORNIA | Ross | 94957 | 1,215 | 560,537 | $461,347 |
| FLORIDA | Palm Beach | 33480 | 6,564 | 3,003,143 | $457,517 |
| ILLINOIS | Chicago | 60606 | 1,064 | 481,759 | $452,781 |
| CONNECTICUT | Greenwich | 06831 | 7,465 | 3,095,629 | $414,686 |
| CALIFORNIA | San Francisco | 94111 | 2,459 | 1,004,803 | $408,623 |
| NEW JERSEY | Far Hills | 07931 | 1,564 | 627,651 | $401,311 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | 02193 | 3,316 | 1,329,457 | $400,922 | |
| NEW YORK | Old Westbury | 11568 | 1,785 | 711,275 | $398,473 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Boston | 02110 | 2,111 | 834,299 | $395,215 |
| TEXAS | Dallas | 75201 | 2,364 | 880,012 | $372,255 |
| CALIFORNIA | Rancho Santa Fe | 92067 | 4,912 | 1,827,795 | $372,108 |
| CALIFORNIA | Portola Valley | 94028 | 3,572 | 1,306,897 | $365,873 |
| NEW YORK | Purchase | 10577 | 1,620 | 574,247 | $354,473 |
| ILLINOIS | Kenilworth | 60043 | 1,315 | 457,641 | $348,016 |
| MISSOURI | Saint Louis | 63124 | 5,593 | 1,826,895 | $326,640 |
| PENNSYLVANIA | Gladwyne | 19035 | 2,169 | 699,690 | $322,586 |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10005 | 1,880 | 578,731 | $307,836 |
| CALIFORNIA | Beverly Hills | 90210 | 10,480 | 3,162,173 | $301,734 |
| ILLINOIS | Winnetka | 60093 | 10,517 | 3,129,300 | $297,547 |
| CALIFORNIA | Los Angeles | 90077 | 4,181 | 1,235,145 | $295,419 |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10018 | 2,797 | 814,967 | $291,372 |
| CONNECTICUT | New Canaan | 06840 | 9,623 | 2,750,207 | $285,795 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Boston | 02108 | 2,610 | 739,875 | $283,477 |
| ILLINOIS | Glencoe | 60022 | 4,390 | 1,237,748 | $281,947 |
| NEW JERSEY | Short Hills | 07078 | 6,745 | 1,896,190 | $281,125 |
| ILLINOIS | Lake Forest | 60045 | 10,185 | 2,802,054 | $275,116 |
| CONNECTICUT | Greenwich | 06830 | 12,515 | 3,372,995 | $269,516 |
| FLORIDA | Longboat Key | 34228 | 3,610 | 972,220 | $269,313 |
| CONNECTICUT | Darien | 06820 | 9,401 | 2,518,214 | $267,867 |
| NEW YORK | Rye | 10580 | 8,195 | 2,182,539 | $266,326 |
| PENNSYLVANIA | Villanova | 19085 | 2,901 | 772,321 | $266,226 |
| TEXAS | Houston | 77002 | 2,319 | 612,696 | $264,207 |
| CALIFORNIA | Belvedere Tiburon | 94920 | 6,413 | 1,669,035 | $260,258 |
| CALIFORNIA | Los Angeles | 90071 | 1,031 | 266,853 | $258,829 |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10022 | 21,670 | 5,469,333 | $252,392 |
| TEXAS | Fort Worth | 76102 | 2,391 | 597,998 | $250,104 |
| CALIFORNIA | San Francisco | 94104 | 1,637 | 400,650 | $244,746 |
| DELAWARE | Wilmington | 19807 | 4,192 | 1,024,239 | $244,332 |
| CALIFORNIA | Los Altos | 94022 | 9,958 | 2,414,274 | $242,446 |
| NEW YORK | Chappaqua | 10514 | 5,937 | 1,424,560 | $239,946 |
| NEW JERSEY | Essex Fells | 07021 | 1,117 | 267,151 | $239,168 |
| GEORGIA | Atlanta | 30327 | 11,481 | 2,702,336 | $235,375 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Lincoln | 01773 | 2,774 | 650,057 | $234,339 |
| CONNECTICUT | Weston | 06883 | 4,699 | 1,066,977 | $227,065 |
| CALIFORNIA | Newport Coast | 92657 | 2,266 | 513,411 | $226,571 |
| PENNSYLVANIA | Haverford | 19041 | 3,135 | 709,656 | $226,366 |
| NEW YORK | Great Neck | 11024 | 3,489 | 789,216 | $226,201 |
| NEW JERSEY | Saddle River | 07458 | 5,381 | 1,215,967 | $225,974 |
| CONNECTICUT | Riverside | 06878 | 3,817 | 859,869 | $225,274 |
| TENNESSEE | Lookout Mountain | 37350 | 1,186 | 266,984 | $225,113 |
| FLORIDA | Vero Beach | 32963 | 6,752 | 1,505,406 | $222,957 |
| NEW YORK | Bedford | 10506 | 2,951 | 657,271 | $222,728 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | 02181 | 6,181 | 1,372,252 | $222,011 | |
| TEXAS | Houston | 77019 | 7,960 | 1,765,571 | $221,805 |
| NEVADA | Las Vegas | 89113 | 3,995 | 885,381 | $221,622 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Boston | 02109 | 3,697 | 815,619 | $220,616 |
| MINNESOTA | Wayzata | 55391 | 7,848 | 1,711,558 | $218,088 |
| NEW JERSEY | Bernardsville | 07924 | 3,504 | 760,432 | $217,018 |
| NEW YORK | Locust Valley | 11560 | 3,460 | 740,001 | $213,873 |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10021 | 56,833 | 12,098,604 | $212,880 |
| TEXAS | Austin | 78730 | 1,993 | 418,947 | $210,209 |
| FLORIDA | Naples | 34102 | 5,576 | 1,166,510 | $209,202 |
| TEXAS | Houston | 77024 | 17,111 | 3,561,753 | $208,156 |
| ILLINOIS | Chicago | 60611 | 14,967 | 3,105,056 | $207,460 |
| NEW YORK | Armonk | 10504 | 3,748 | 777,274 | $207,384 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | 02167 | 4,342 | 894,391 | $205,986 | |
| NORTH CAROLINA | Charlotte | 28207 | 4,518 | 928,762 | $205,569 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Dover | 02030 | 2,793 | 573,987 | $205,509 |
| CONNECTICUT | Westport | 06880 | 13,278 | 2,720,166 | $204,863 |
| OHIO | Gates Mills | 44040 | 2,020 | 412,549 | $204,232 |
| CALIFORNIA | Pacific Palisades | 90272 | 11,319 | 2,305,152 | $203,653 |
| TEXAS | Dallas | 75205 | 10,982 | 2,229,410 | $203,006 |
| NEW JERSEY | Franklin Lakes | 07417 | 5,306 | 1,076,578 | $202,898 |
| KANSAS | Shawnee Mission | 66211 | 2,016 | 408,972 | $202,863 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Weston | 02493 | 2,063 | 416,997 | $202,131 |
| CALIFORNIA | Encino | 91436 | 8,415 | 1,693,315 | $201,226 |
| TEXAS | Dallas | 75225 | 11,331 | 2,276,633 | $200,921 |
| TEXAS | Austin | 78746 | 12,215 | 2,452,417 | $200,771 |
| VIRGINIA | Great Falls | 22066 | 7,876 | 1,575,622 | $200,054 |
| CALIFORNIA | San Francisco | 94105 | 1,685 | 330,473 | $196,126 |
| NEW YORK | New York | 10017 | 12,898 | 2,525,912 | $195,837 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Cohasset | 02025 | 3,534 | 691,417 | $195,647 |
| CALIFORNIA | Palo Alto | 94301 | 9,160 | 1,783,255 | $194,678 |
| ILLINOIS | Oak Brook | 60523 | 4,397 | 850,239 | $193,368 |
| NEW JERSEY | Rumson | 07760 | 4,964 | 959,420 | $193,276 |
| CONNECTICUT | Southport | 06490 | 2,216 | 427,313 | $192,831 |
| NEW JERSEY | Mendham | 07945 | 4,594 | 877,310 | $190,969 |
| CALIFORNIA | Saratoga | 95070 | 15,576 | 2,961,579 | $190,137 |
| CONNECTICUT | Stamford | 06903 | 7,175 | 1,363,212 | $189,995 |
| NEW YORK | Cold Spring Harbor | 11724 | 1,729 | 326,030 | $188,566 |
| NEVADA | Incline Village | 89452 | 1,282 | 239,677 | $186,956 |
| MASSACHUSETTS | Boston | 02105 | 1,410 | 263,545 | $186,911 |
| WASHINGTON | Seattle | 98111 | 1,328 | 245,600 | $184,940 |
| CALIFORNIA | Santa Monica | 90402 | 5,994 | 1,105,839 | $184,491 |
| CALIFORNIA | Beverly Hills | 90212 | 8,404 | 1,547,160 | $184,098 |
What To Do With This Data?
Alright… unless you’re an avid marketer and a constant student of marketing and sales… you’re probably asking, “Cool… now what do I do with this data?”.
Well, there are a few different approaches.
- You can use the data and help it give you direction on where you want to start marketing online or offline (of course, follow SEC rules and guidelines like we teach in Private Money Blueprint) so you’re focusing your online and offiline efforts in areas more likely to have bigger lenders.
- You can focus your networking in these zip codes so you can start to mingle with people who are more likely to have more money. Odds are bigger that you’ll be talking to more savvy investors in these zip codes and to people who will understand your private lending program more easily.
- You can just note it in your mind and keep it for future reference (which means you’ll never use it)
- You can realize that if you’re hitting a wall with your networking (if you’re really out there hustling and talking to a lot of people… at leaset 3 new people a week) and you’re in need of bigger private lenders… you can start to build out your network in these areas. If you’re not close to these areas… use our LinkedIn ‘Private Money Getting” tutorial if you’re a Private Money Monthly member and start making contacts with influential people in those areas. If you’re not a Private Money Monthly Member… no prob at all… hit up the social networking sites like Facebook, LinkedIn, etc and just start building relationships with influential people in these zip codes.
This chart more than anything goes to show you that there’s still a ton of money out there waiting for a great opportunity to invest in private lending programs like ours that pay great returns backed by real estate.
Now… it’s up to us who are going to take action on this data to go out there and grab our share!
I’m grabbing mine… it’ll take some work… but nothing worth while doesn’t take hard work and committment.
Go get ‘em!
How to Explain the “Worst Case Scenario” to a Private Money Lending Prospect
Posted by Patrick_Riddle
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What do you say to a private money lending prospect when they ask you the dreaded … “Worst Case Scenario Question” …
This is one of those questions that comes up practically EVERY TIME you present your private lending program.
One of our students, Jose, recently had this exact question and wanted to know how to navigate this touchy subject without scaring them off … check out his email to us below …

Great question Jose … we get this one all the time …
What you say to answer this question, AND how you say it could easily make or break the deal … heck, where you answer this question could easily make or break the deal (as a Private Money Blueprint student, you know exactly what I’m talking about, don’t you?).
Check out the video below … I not only tell you exaclty what to say and how to say it, I also let you in on where to answer this type of question (most investors get this all wrong) …
Leave your questions, comments, tips below …
- Patrick & Trevor



